
The
Wedding Banquet
(Xi yan)
MGM
Home Video,
1995
Director:
Ang Lee
Screenplay:
Ang Lee,
Neil Peng
Starring:
Winston Chao,
Mitchell Lichtenstein,
May Chin,
Sihung Lung,
Ah Lei Gua
Unrated,
106 minutes
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Going
To The Chapel
by
Michael D. Klemm
Posted online, October, 2009

The conventional
wisdom expressed by much of queer cinema study insists that only gay directors
should direct gay films. This argument has merits but ignores a few notable
exceptions, one of them being Taiwan-born filmmaker, Ang Lee - the director
of Brokeback Mountain (1995). Lee
is straight yet managed to craft one of the most moving queer films of
all time. Somehow it has been forgotten that Lee had previously tested
the waters of gay cinema more than a decade earlier. The year was 1993
and the film was The Wedding Banquet.
It was Lee's second film and it is a stunner.
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Wai-Tung
(Winston Chao) is a young businessman/landlord in his late twenties, living
in New York City. His lover of five years, Simon, is played by Mitchell
Lichtenstein, the son of the famous painter (his other queer credits include
Robert Altman's 1983 Streamers and 1999's Flawless). They
are a happy couple and their introductory scenes together are sweet without
being the least bit saccharine. Wai-Tung's elderly parents send weekly
letters from back home in Taiwan in which the constant question always
is: when are you getting married? Father dearly wants to hold his grandson
in his arms before he dies. No pressure, Wai-Tung. Just marry someone!
It goes without saying
that the parents know nothing about Simon. Though he is sick of lying,
Wai-Tung thinks it would kill his parents for them to know the truth.
(What, no grandchildren?) So Wai-Tung goes on pretending and then Simon
has an idea.
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Wei-Wei
(May Chin), an abstract painter, is one of Wai-Tung's tenants. She is
so poor that she begs Wai-Tung to take one of her paintings as payment
for three months of back rent. She is an inch away from getting deported
and so Simon proposes that Wai-Tung marry her and then she can stay in
the country and he can tell his parents that he's finally tying
the knot. Two problems solved, right? Wrong. Before you know it, Mom and
Dad are flying in from the mainland for the wedding and, as events get
more and more out of hand, the reluctant bride and groom are treated to
a traditional Taiwanese wedding banquet with all its attending pageantry.
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The
Wedding Banquet
is a thoroughly delightful film from beginning to end. It begins as a screwball
comedy. Mother's tape-recorded letters are a hoot; Wai-Tung is listening
to one while pumping iron in the gym during the film's opening credits.
Her pleadings become more and more desperate until finally she enrolls him
in a dating service and sends him a questionnaire. Wai-Tung and Simon have
a blast filling it out with the most impossible requirements they can think
of. His ideal woman would have two doctorates (one in physics), speak five
languages and sing opera. Simon's suggestion that she also be six feet tall
is overruled because, after all, she is Chinese and we can't be
too unrealistic. Imagine their shock when the service finds someone
who meets most of the requirements (she only has one phD), and mother
is flying her to New York to meet him. |
In
most films that would probably be the main plot but here it's only
the appetizer before the main course. There is much more madness to come.
The Wedding Banquet is often
hilarious, but Lee also knows when to hold back for emotional resonance
and so his film never explodes into flat out farce like, for example,
La Cage Aux Folles or its American hybrid, The
Birdcage. The humor arises from natural situations that aren't in the
least bit forced or contrived. |
I'd
like to note that in 1993, when The Wedding
Banquet played in movie theaters, the "fraud marriage to
fool Immigration" storyline was unique and hadn't yet become the cliched
plot device that it has turned into today. (Recent examples include the
Sandra Bullock vehicle The Proposal, and TV's Desperate Housewives.)
This story was still fresh then, and the film manages to remain fresh even
today. |
There
are many surprises that I don't want to spoil.
The Wedding Banquet is blessed with a fine script, excellent
character development and winning performances. Lee has a talent for establishing
character in the briefest of sketches. Wai-Tung and Simon are very believable
as a couple. We know immediately that Wai-Tung is a workaholic and Simon
is the typical put-upon wife. It is also apparent that these two guys are
deeply in love. At the time of its theatrical release, most straight filmmakers
were still too timid to show male intimacy (Philadelphia
anyone?) and that is not the case here. Even if there is no big
sex scene, Wai-Tung and Simon's relationship is not sanitized; they
kiss, show affection, and are frequently seen laying in bed together. There
is a terrific scene where they find a moment alone, because the parents
are out shopping, and their playful affection for each other is clear and
heartfelt. Even more refreshing, for its day, was the interracial element. |
Wei-Wei
is introduced as a very sensuous woman and it is clear that she is attracted
to Wai-Tung. However, she is not a dragon lady and the thought would never
enter her mind to try to come between our boys. It is worth repeating
that the idea for the wedding came from Simon (he convinces Wai-Tung when
he mentions the large tax deduction he can claim). Wei-Wei will enjoy
the attention paid to her as a bride but she never tries to manipulate
the circumstances for her personal gain. She even grows to love her new
in-laws and feels much guilt over the elaborate deception. Wai-Tung's
parents are richly developed characters as well and the audience keenly
feels both their joy and their sorrow. You also feel for Simon as he gets
pushed to the sidelines.
Viewers are in for
a treat. The Wedding Banquet
is a cultural feast with colorful traditions parading before the camera.
Both languages are also spoken in the film to enhance this beautiful study
in contrasts, both cultural and generational. Visually rich and beautifully
acted, it satisfies on all levels.
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This
is one of those films when you really can say that you laughed and
you cried. I laughed as the three principals "de-gayed" Wai-Tung and Simon's
apartment. ACT-UP posters come down, a videotape of Todd Haynes' Poison
is put away, a framed picture of Wai-Tung naked and holding a hat in front
of his crotch is replaced by a military portrait - all to the strains of
frenzied Charles Mingus style jazz. Lee hits all the right comic notes and
then engages our emotions with some pretty intense, and poignant, third
act drama. |
Ang
Lee has enjoyed quite an eclectic film career. It seems like there is
no genre he cannot direct. Aside from his two queer films, he has returned
to Taiwan to explore traditional Chinese themes (Eat Drink, Man, Woman
- 1994), he has directed period drama (Sense and Sensibility -
1995), martial arts (Crouching Dragon Hidden Lion -2000) and the
comic book (Hulk -2003). In 2005, he made cinematic history with
the crossover queer hit, Brokeback Mountain
and almost took the Best Picture Oscar. The
Wedding Banquet is, in every respect, Brokeback's
equal and should be remembered as a queer cinema classic. Check it out
if you've never seen it, you won't be disappointed.
More
On Ang Lee:
Brokeback Mountain
Taking Woodstock
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